I want to make two of my adolescents friends before the one (Aspen) becomes an adult tomorrow. But on his use specialty item screen, the other adol doesn't show up:


However Halcyon (the other adol) does have Aspen as an option on her end:


If it's important, Halcyon just became an adol today, so these two are technically both the same stage but on opposite ends. I just don't know why one can use the item and not the other

and are the two cats