Lethe isn't suited to be a leader; yet, they led their small group of friends through their lives on Earth and now many of the upturned not-cats look to them for a level head and good judgement now that they're on not-earth. Alas, to be so anti-theoretical-not-really-extant-establishment that everyone decides you're the best suited to run the actual-new-real town that you live in now?

Lethe isn't suited to be a parent, either. But...there was one bean, then two, and someone had to take care of them! It was temporary. Lethe will do the best job until then!! Until they find someone else. And then they were, erm...grown? And by that point 'temporary' had already passed at breakneck speed. So, two little (big) children that are doing well and wow they're adults now.

The memory of cold nights in a confusing city fade to the backside. Lethe's too busy now to think about the old world...